Just for Him - romantic presents for menThe best gifts for your husband, boyfriend ... or any special man in your life |
Who said men were difficult to buy presents for?
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First of all, one of the best purchases I've ever made and something I use every day for relaxation -
forget relaxation tapes or CDs of 'soothing' (read 'boring') music,
the Proteus 'light and sound device' could be the best present you ever buy him.
Click here to read more about the Proteus and other relaxation aids from Lifetools. -
Or perhaps he's a gardener? Greenfingers is the leading UK online gardening store, featuring garden equipment, garden games and toys, garden ornaments, garden lighting, gardening books, gardening tools ... and much more.
They also provide an excellent resource offering masses of gardening advice and tips.
Click here to read more about Greenfingers and their exceptional range of anything you might want for the gardener in your life - at very good prices. - ... plus loads more coming very soon ...
- There's something rather luxurious about having a case of wine delivered ("my wine merchant's delivering a case tomorrow ...") and it sure beats wasting time in the supermarket squinting at the labels and trying to decide what to buy - click here to read some of our suggestions on how to buy wine for the special man in your life.
- Rent a row of vines in a French or Italian vineyard, enjoy the wine and visit 'your' vineyard together - click here to read about renting part of a vineyard, as a unique gift for the special man in your life.
- Surprise your man with a short break or holiday - click here to read about buying a romantic short break or holiday for the 2 of you.
- How about a gift experience for him - rally driving, flying lessons, quad biking, powerboating, skydiving, etc. etc - click here to read about buying a gift experience for the special man in your life.
- We've teamed up with Links of London and Jewellery.tv, offering their extensive ranges of high quality jewellery for men - click here to read about buying jewellery for the special man in your life.
- Or how about buying a piece of original art or a limited-edition print - click here to read about buying art as an extra-special present for the man in your life.
- If you want a really easy present, find out what CDs, DVDs or books your man wants and buy them for him. No false smiles; no unenthusiastic kisses - he'll have received just the present he wanted - click here to go straight to our CDs page, click here to go to our DVDs page or click here to go to our books page
- Or you could take out a subscription to the leading UK DVD rental service, LOVEFiLM, and put on your list all your man's favourite films. Then, on that special occasion, you can present him with up to 4 of his or her favourite films on DVD - click here to go to our DVD rental page.
LifeTools - based in England - are Europe's largest mail order supplier of light and sound devices, plus tapes and CDs for relaxation, helping you sleep better, boosting your energy, improving your memory, lifting confidence ... and much more!
There are loads of 'relaxation' tapes and CDs around, but they're often that jingly-jangly New Age music which, er, isn't to everyone's taste! Instead, I bought something much better - about 5 years ago - called a 'light and sound device', which is basically a little machine - the Proteus - which you plug headphones and some spacey-looking things which look a bit like sunglasses into - high-tech enough to satisfy any gadget-freak, but easy enough to use if he's a technophobe!
You select a 'program' (maybe 'Deep Relaxation' or 'Quick Work Break'), lie down, close your eyes, start the program (which ranges from 10 minutes to an hour) and you get soothing rhythmical sounds in your ears and pretty-coloured LED lights flashing onto your eyelids.
What you get is all the benefits of a short sleep, but without actually having to go to sleep and without the grogginess you get after waking up from a sleep during the day. Or, if you like, the benefits of meditation without having to spend years focussing on a candle-flame or reciting some weird-sounding words.
It's particularly brilliant if you're tired after a day's work - you finish the session feeling completely fresh again and ready for just about anything!
Depending on which program you choose, the Proteus can help perk you up in the morning (maybe the day after a late night), get you ready for a late night's clubbing, give you extra energy whenever you need it, help get you to sleep, or help with learning, memory or concentration.. It's also great if, like me, you're self-employed and want to do something as a break between the working day and a relaxing evening. I normally do a short, 16 minute, program just before dinner, or might choose a longer one if I'm feeling tired.
As you can tell, I'm really enthusiastic about my Proteus and wouldn't be without it. If you want to ask us any questions about it (we both use it regularly), just to email us. We're here to help ... and that's the LovefromMe difference.
The Proteus costs only £119 and Lifetools offer a 60-day 100% no-risk money-back guarantee - so if you think your man might benefit from one, just give it a try - there's absolutely nothing to lose, and he'll have a lot of fun trying it out!
You can buy it for less elsewhere, but without that important 60-day trial period - and I reckon that's worth paying a bit extra for.
Click here to read all about the 'MindLab Proteus' Sound & Light Machine on the Lifetools website
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Some frequently asked questions about the Proteus light and sound device
- answered by Chris Payne, founder of Lifetools
Can I use my own music tapes while using a light and sound device?
Yes! Simply connect any tape player into the side of any of these light and sound devices using the free lead. As an example, if your tape/CD lasts 32 minutes, just select a 35 minute session and start your tape/CD player. The Proteus will enable you to enjoy your music to the full.
Do I have to use a tape/CD player? ?
No, the Proteus has built-in electronics to create rhythmic tones -- there are no tapes inside. You can mix these tones with music coming from your tape/CD player -- or switch these tones off because about 80% of the effect comes from the light patterns.
What can I expect to experience with the Proteus just on its own?
The main thing to say is that 99% of people who buy one find it relaxes them.
Here's my experience: I feel myself relaxing very quickly, faster than any meditation or relaxation technique I've tried before. At the end of 20 minutes or so my mind seems very quiet - similar to the deep quiet you suddenly notice in a kitchen during a powercut. It's only then that you notice the background hum of the fridge has stopped, but you hadn't really noticed the hum before, so you're doubly amazed!
Can two people use a Proteus at the same time?
Yes, two people can share the experience of a session: you'll need a second set of liteframes, a second pair of headphones and two splitters - one to split the sound and the other to split the lights. We sell extra liteframes and splitters on this site.
How does the Proteus help with learning?
Losanov's research in Bulgaria, as reported in books like Super Learning and Accelerated Learning, showed that deep relaxation dramatically improved anybody's ability to learn and recall information. The Proteus will help you achieve deep relaxation so you can concentrate your mind.
During extensive tests over a four-year period at Arizona State University, 85% of those who used ‘super learning’ sessions on a light and sound device reported improved test scores when the session was used immediately prior to taking the test. 50% reported significantly decreased test anxieties. Other reports include large increases in creativity and writing abilities.
What's the best way to use the Proteus when studying?
If you have your material, such as a language course, on tape or CD then you simply play it while using a ‘Learn’ session on the Proteus. If you are studying a book you should read for half an hour to 45 minutes then use the Proteus for 15 minutes.
Research also indicates that deep relaxation after a study session can improve recall as it helps information to be absorbed.
Another way is to study while listening to the rhythmic tones. Some people find that they focus more on the page they're reading, and are less distracted by mind chatter.
What other benefits are there?
Special ‘Energise’ sessions can help perk you up in the morning, the day after a late night, the evening before a late night, or any time you need extra energy.
Also, the Proteus may help you break negative emotional ‘conversations’ where you play out make-believe events in your head or re-run past injustices. It does this by diverting your attention, and enabling you to feel calmer and more centred.
What are ‘binaural beats’, as used in the Proteus?
A researcher called Robert Monroe looked for sound patterns to help induce the deepest relaxation states. He found that by giving each ear its own frequency sound to listen to, the two sound waves were interpreted by the brain to produce a ‘difference’ frequency. For example, if one ear heard 400Hz (cycles per second) and the other 404Hz a brainwave frequency of 4Hz was induced, which is the frequency corresponding to the ‘theta’ brainwave state - the state our brains are in during the first stages of sleep.
With this example, what you will gain is a period of relaxation equivalent to the regenerating benefits of sleep, without having to go to sleep and without the grogginess you get if you actually have a sleep during the day!
Will the Proteus work for me?
We offer a 60-day 100% no-risk money-back guarantee - so if you think you may benefit from one, just give it a try. there is nothing to lose, and you'll have a lot of fun trying it out!
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- answered by Chris Payne, founder of Lifetools
Can I use my own music tapes while using a light and sound device?
Yes! Simply connect any tape player into the side of any of these light and sound devices using the free lead. As an example, if your tape/CD lasts 32 minutes, just select a 35 minute session and start your tape/CD player. The Proteus will enable you to enjoy your music to the full.
Do I have to use a tape/CD player? ?
No, the Proteus has built-in electronics to create rhythmic tones -- there are no tapes inside. You can mix these tones with music coming from your tape/CD player -- or switch these tones off because about 80% of the effect comes from the light patterns.
What can I expect to experience with the Proteus just on its own?
The main thing to say is that 99% of people who buy one find it relaxes them.
Here's my experience: I feel myself relaxing very quickly, faster than any meditation or relaxation technique I've tried before. At the end of 20 minutes or so my mind seems very quiet - similar to the deep quiet you suddenly notice in a kitchen during a powercut. It's only then that you notice the background hum of the fridge has stopped, but you hadn't really noticed the hum before, so you're doubly amazed!
Can two people use a Proteus at the same time?
Yes, two people can share the experience of a session: you'll need a second set of liteframes, a second pair of headphones and two splitters - one to split the sound and the other to split the lights. We sell extra liteframes and splitters on this site.
How does the Proteus help with learning?
Losanov's research in Bulgaria, as reported in books like Super Learning and Accelerated Learning, showed that deep relaxation dramatically improved anybody's ability to learn and recall information. The Proteus will help you achieve deep relaxation so you can concentrate your mind.
During extensive tests over a four-year period at Arizona State University, 85% of those who used ‘super learning’ sessions on a light and sound device reported improved test scores when the session was used immediately prior to taking the test. 50% reported significantly decreased test anxieties. Other reports include large increases in creativity and writing abilities.
What's the best way to use the Proteus when studying?
If you have your material, such as a language course, on tape or CD then you simply play it while using a ‘Learn’ session on the Proteus. If you are studying a book you should read for half an hour to 45 minutes then use the Proteus for 15 minutes.
Research also indicates that deep relaxation after a study session can improve recall as it helps information to be absorbed.
Another way is to study while listening to the rhythmic tones. Some people find that they focus more on the page they're reading, and are less distracted by mind chatter.
What other benefits are there?
Special ‘Energise’ sessions can help perk you up in the morning, the day after a late night, the evening before a late night, or any time you need extra energy.
Also, the Proteus may help you break negative emotional ‘conversations’ where you play out make-believe events in your head or re-run past injustices. It does this by diverting your attention, and enabling you to feel calmer and more centred.
What are ‘binaural beats’, as used in the Proteus?
A researcher called Robert Monroe looked for sound patterns to help induce the deepest relaxation states. He found that by giving each ear its own frequency sound to listen to, the two sound waves were interpreted by the brain to produce a ‘difference’ frequency. For example, if one ear heard 400Hz (cycles per second) and the other 404Hz a brainwave frequency of 4Hz was induced, which is the frequency corresponding to the ‘theta’ brainwave state - the state our brains are in during the first stages of sleep.
With this example, what you will gain is a period of relaxation equivalent to the regenerating benefits of sleep, without having to go to sleep and without the grogginess you get if you actually have a sleep during the day!
Will the Proteus work for me?
We offer a 60-day 100% no-risk money-back guarantee - so if you think you may benefit from one, just give it a try. there is nothing to lose, and you'll have a lot of fun trying it out!
to read some frequently asked questions about the Proteus
... then click here to visit the Lifetools website, to buy the ultimate relaxing present for your boyfriend, husband ... or any special man in your life.
Greenfingers is the leading UK online gardening store.
And, unlike the vast majority of mail-order companies, their prices are just as cheap as DIY stores and supermarkets and they offer free delivery for all internet orders over £45 (just enter the special code 'IFD1' at checkout), with a standard charge of £4.95 for smaller orders.
They have a special section for gardening presents for men, to speed up your search ( click here), a section on gardening books, featuring the Dr Hessayon 'Expert' series, which I've been using for the last 20 years , a range of special gardening innovations and new products and even a range of bird boxes and bird tables, if he's a birdlover as well as a gardener .
But when your man works hard all week, maybe he doesn't want to be working all weekend in the garden as well - click here for their special range of garden (and indoor) hammocks or click here for hanging and swinging chairs.
One of the special features of the site is a massive amount of gardening advice - many thousands of man-hours have been dedicated by gardening experts in compiling enormous databases and numerous articles. Greenfingers also signed up some of Britain's leading gardening writers to provide exclusive articles offering inspiration and advice on a ongoing basis. Click here to find out anything you might want to know about gardening!
Or you can read their gardening advice for
... oh, there's a 50% off gardening clearance sale page as well.
Click here
The Greenfingers Mission
Greenfingers' mission is 'Inspiration for your Garden.' We aim to provide you with a range of content and shopping opportunities that will help you achieve inspiration in your garden, be it around a house in the country, a city garden, a window-box or a pot-plant in your bathroom.
With the accessibility and interactivity the Internet can offer we aim to help people find the ideas, information, advice and products they need, just when they need them with as much ease and convenience as possible.
We've not simply put a garden centre online. We are passionate about the range of content that we offer that provides information and advice before you purchase. And we offer a vast array of plain-English, purpose-built gardening information as well as many features to encourage the exchange of advice between gardeners.
We're also determined to look after our customers, whether you come to us to shop, for advice, for inspiration, or for information. We aim to make the Greenfingers experience as rewarding and enjoyable as we possibly can.
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Greenfingers' mission is 'Inspiration for your Garden.' We aim to provide you with a range of content and shopping opportunities that will help you achieve inspiration in your garden, be it around a house in the country, a city garden, a window-box or a pot-plant in your bathroom.
With the accessibility and interactivity the Internet can offer we aim to help people find the ideas, information, advice and products they need, just when they need them with as much ease and convenience as possible.
We've not simply put a garden centre online. We are passionate about the range of content that we offer that provides information and advice before you purchase. And we offer a vast array of plain-English, purpose-built gardening information as well as many features to encourage the exchange of advice between gardeners.
We're also determined to look after our customers, whether you come to us to shop, for advice, for inspiration, or for information. We aim to make the Greenfingers experience as rewarding and enjoyable as we possibly can.
to read all about Greenfingers
... then click here to visit the website, to find the perfect gardening present for your boyfriend, husband ... or any special gardener in your life
The work we do for you, choosing suppliers and products we think you'll like, represents the whole point about LovefromMe, and what we had always intended - right from the start - to accomplish. We do the work finding the best suppliers, looking into what they offer and telling you about them ... so that you can just order that special present, with no hassle and no worry.
But, don't forget that if you need any help on choosing presents for your husband, boyfriend, or any special male friend, just to email us. We're here to help ... and that's the LovefromMe difference.
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